Date: Jun 06 2000 20:30:15 EDT From: QuitSmokingTips Subject: QuitSmokingTips - Volume 2 Number 20 Tuesday June 6, 2000 Welcome to QuitSmokingTips brought to you by QuitSmokingSupport.com If you feel that the material in this newsletter may be of benefit to anyone you know please feel free to pass it on! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ HOW TO QUIT SMOKING... Smokers often say, "Don't tell me why to quit, tell me how." There is no one right way to quit, but there are some key elements in quitting smoking successfully. These four factors are crucial: Making the decision to quit Setting a quit date and choosing a quit plan Dealing with withdrawal Maintenance or staying quit Making the Decision to Quit The decision to quit smoking is one that only you can make. Others may want you to quit, but the real commitment must come from you. Researchers have looked into how and why people stop smoking. They have some ideas, or models, of how this happens. The Health Belief Model says that you will be more likely to stop smoking if you: -believe that you could get a smoking-related disease and this worries you -believe that you can make an honest attempt at quitting smoking -believe that the benefits of quitting outweigh the benefits of continuing to smoke -know of someone who has had health problems as a result of their smoking Do any of these apply to you? The Stages of Change Model identifies the stages that a person goes through in making a change in behavior. Here are the stages as they apply to quitting smoking: Pre-contemplator. This is the smoker who is not thinking seriously about quitting right now. Contemplator. This is the smoker who is actively thinking about quitting but is not quite ready to make a serious attempt yet. This person may say, "Yes, I'm ready to quit, but the stress at work is too much, or I don't want to gain weight, or I'm not sure if I can do it." Preparation. Smokers in the preparation stage seriously intend to quit in the next month and often have tried to quit in the past 12 months. They usually have a plan. Action. This is the first 6 months when the smoker is actively quitting. Maintenance. This is the period of 6 months to five years after quitting when the ex-smoker is aware of the danger of relapse and take steps to avoid it. Where do you fit in this model? If you are thinking about quitting, setting a date and deciding on a plan will move you into the preparation stage, the best place to start. Setting a quit date and deciding on a plan Once you've made a decision to quit, you're ready to pick a quit date. This is a very important step. Pick a specific day within the next month as your Quit Day. Picking a date too far in the future allows you time to rationalize and change your mind. But do give yourself enough time to prepare and come up with a plan. You might choose a date with a special meaning like a birthday or anniversary, or simply pick a date. Circle the date on your calendar. Make a strong, personal commitment to quit on that day. There is no one right way to quit. Most smokers prefer to quit "cold turkey," that is abruptly and totally. They smoke until their Quit Day and then stop all at once, or they may smoke fewer cigarettes for a week or two before their Quit Day. Another way involves cutting down on the number of cigarettes smoked each day. With this method, you gradually reduce the amount of nicotine in your body. You might cut out cigarettes smoked with a cup of coffee, or you might decide to smoke only at certain times of the day. While it sounds logical to cut down in order to quit gradually, in practice this method usually is not effective. Quitting smoking is a lot like losing weight; it takes a strong commitment over a long period of time. Smokers wish there were a magic bullet-- a pill or method that would make quitting painless and easy. But that is not the case. Nicotine substitutes can help reduce withdrawal, but they are most effective when used as part of a stop smoking plan that addresses both the physical and psychological component of quitting smoking. Here are some steps to help you prepare for your Quit Day: Pick the date and mark it on your calendar. Tell friends and family of your quit day. Stock up on sugarless gum, cinnamon sticks, carrot sticks, hard candy. Decide on a plan. Will you use nicotine replacement therapy (the patch or gum)? Will you attend a smoking cessation class? If so, sign up now. Practice saying, "No thank you, I don't smoke." Set up a support system. This could be a group class, Nicotine Anonymous, or a friend who has successfully quit and is willing to help you. Successful quitting is a matter of planning and commitment, not luck. Decide now on your own plan. Some possibilities include using the nicotine patch or gum, joining a stop smoking class, going to Nicotine Anonymous meetings, or using self-help materials such as books and pamphlets. Your plan should include one or more of these options. On your Quit Day, follow these suggestions: Do not smoke Get rid of all cigarettes, lighters, ashtrays, etc. Keep active -- try walking, exercising, or doing other activities or hobbies Drink lots of water and juices Begin using the patch or gum if that is your choice Attend stop smoking class or follow a self-help plan Avoid high-risk situations where the urge to smoke is strong Reduce or avoid alcohol Use the four "A's" (avoid, alter, alternatives, activities) to deal with tough situations (described in more detail later) Dealing With Withdrawal Withdrawal from nicotine has two parts, the physical and the psychological. The physical symptoms, while annoying, are not life threatening. Nicotine replacement (the patch or gum) can help reduce many of these physical symptoms. But most smokers find that the bigger challenge is the psychological part of quitting. If you have been smoking for any length of time, smoking has become linked with nearly everything you do -- waking up in the morning, eating, reading, watching TV, drinking coffee, etc. It will take time to "un-link" smoking from these activities. That is why, even if you are using the patch or gum, you may still have strong urges to smoke. One way to overcome these urges or cravings is to identify rationalizations as they come up. A rationalization is a mistaken belief that seems to make sense at the time but is not based on facts. If you have tried to quit before, you will probably recognize many of these common rationalizations. I'll just have one to get through this rough spot. (Does a smoker ever stop with just one?) Today is not a good day; I'll quit tomorrow. (We've heard that one before.) It's my only vice. How bad is smoking, really? Uncle Harry smoked all his life and he lived to be over 90. Air pollution is probably just as bad. You've got to die of something. Life is no fun without smoking. You probably can add more to the list. As you go through the first few days without smoking, write down any rationalizations as they come up and recognize them for what they are: messages that can trap you into going back to smoking. Use the ideas below to help you keep your commitment to quitting. Avoid. People and places where you are tempted to smoke. Later on you will be able to handle these with more confidence. Alter. For example, switch to soft drinks or water instead of alcohol or coffee. Take a different route to work; take a brisk walk instead of a coffee break. Alternatives: Use oral substitutions such as sugarless gum or hard candy, raw vegetables such as carrot sticks, or sunflower seeds. Activities. Exercise or hobbies that keep your hands busy (needlework, woodworking, etc.) can help distract you from the urge to smoke. Deep breathing and delay are two other useful tactics. When you were smoking, you breathed deeply as you inhaled the smoke. When the urge strikes now, breathe deeply and picture your lungs filling with fresh, clean air. Remind yourself of your reasons for quitting and the benefits you'll gain as an ex-smoker. If you feel that you are about to light up, delay. Tell yourself you must wait at least 10 minutes. Often this simple trick will allow you to move beyond the acute urge to smoke. What you're doing is not easy, so you deserve a reward. Put the money you would have spent on tobacco in a jar every day and then buy yourself a weekly treat. Buy a magazine, go out to eat, call a friend long-distance. Or save the money for a major purchase. You can also reward yourself in ways that don't cost money: take time out to read, work on a hobby, or take a relaxing bath. Staying Quit (Maintenance) Remember the quotation by Mark Twain? Maybe you, too, have quit many times before. So you know that staying quit is the final, and most important, stage of the process. You can use the same methods to stay quit as you did to help you through withdrawal. Think ahead to those times when you may be tempted to smoke and plan on how you will use alternatives and activities to cope with these situations. More dangerous, perhaps, are the unexpected strong desires to smoke that occur, sometimes months (or even years) after you've quit. To get through these without relapse, try the following: First, review your reasons for quitting and think of all the benefits to your health, your finances and your family. Second, remind yourself that there is no such thing as just one cigarette -- or even one puff. Ride out the desire to smoke. It will go away, but do not fool yourself into thinking you can have just one. What if you do smoke? The difference between a slip and a relapse is within your control. You can use the slip as an excuse to go back to smoking, or you can look at what went wrong and renew your commitment to staying off smoking for good. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Take care! Blair bwprice@quitsmokingsupport.com QuitSmokingSupport.com http://www.quitsmokingsupport.com